Why is it so difficult for spouses to please each other? In most marriages one partner and sometimes both feel the other does not really know how to please them. Because men and women are extremely different, we cannot wing it. Sadly, but true, is the fact that many wives who do not take the time to learn about their husbands needs and desires find themselves in a marriage with infidelity. Now, we definitely do not condone cheating and there should never be an excuse for it, however, this is the reality in too many marriage.

Over the years I have had to learn and sometimes relearn what to do to keep my husband satisfied. We have learnt and sometimes relearn what to do. Here are three tips that can help you satisfy your husband and keep him at home.

Men Need Adventure

Adventure just seems to be built into a man because most of them crave it in all areas of their lives and their love life is not an exception.

If you are unwilling to be adventurous then you may not see the kind of changes you desire.

A lot of times their adventurous spirit is revealed in their fantasies. In my relationship with Mark, once he has a fantasy that involves both of us alone, fulfilling our God given duties to each other, then I am more than willing to do it. It may relate to the place that he wants to make love, dressing up etc.

Once it doesn't violate our commitment to each other and does not overstep our boundaries, I aim to please. What about you. Have you been adventurous with your husband?

He may want to try out a new position. These include X Position, Flanquette, Florentine, Cuissade etc. See the article "how to satisfy your wife" for an explanation of each.

Men also Like to Be Complimented

As wives we can sometimes feel that we are the only ones who should be complemented. However, our husbands also appreciate it when we complement them on their appearance, the work they do and just about anything we love to be complemented on.

You can learn a thing or two from the  bride in Song of Songs 5:10, 14-16 who said, "My lover is radiant and ruddy, outstanding among ten thousand. His arms are rods of gold set with chrysolite. His body is like polished ivory decorated with sapphires. His legs are pillars of marble set on bases of pure gold. His appearance is like Lebanon, choice as its cedars. His mouth is sweetness itself; he is altogether lovely. This is my lover, this my friend". When was the last time you complemented your husband? Decide to do it today.

Men Prefer to Have Sex with the Lights On

Ladies, I know that most of us prefer to make love with the lights off. However, for most men they prefer having the lights on. I think it is because they are visual beings and are more aroused by sight. If this is what your husband wants, then give it to his.

Whether or not you feel insecure about your body, if he loves to look at it then let him.

Men Love It When You Are In the Nude

Again we go back to the point of our husbands wanting to see us in our full glory. Some nights, just decide to go to bed with nothing on. This is especially for those wives who love wearing those oversized sweaters to bed.

If you do not have children, then walk around the house in your birthday suite. The days that you are home before him, greet him at the door in your birthday suit and a glass of his favorite beverage.

Trust me, you will definitely get his attention and he will have no need to look outside the house for any form of satisfaction.

There are a host of things you can do to fully satisfy your spouse, but start with these and I can guarantee that you will see some changes in your love life.

By Lesia Gregory

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