Christian Marriage Counseling
Has Your Marriage Become A Routine?
Do You Want to Add Fire and Intimacy to Your Marriage?
Are You Concerned Your Marriage Could Be Over?
Well, wouldn’t you agree that it’s
crazy to
think you’ll get different results if you keep doing the
same thing over and over
again?
If I keep touching a hot stove and
kept getting burned – I’d be
silly
to think the next time I touch that hot stove I won’t get burnt.
That’s why you need to try something
different…
The reality is that most couples
genuinely want
to have great marriages, but the true test comes when
you
are challenged to be different and go beyond your comfort
zone.
Always remember that every success in life
comes at a price. You end up paying for it through hard work, determination,
sweat and sometimes tears. Well, marriage is no exception. What you put into your
marriage is what you will get out of it. Scriptures tell us that "We reap what
we sow".
So, what have you and your spouse been sowing in your
marriage? Is it pride, disrespect, going to bed upset
with each other (being upset with each other for days or even
weeks), bitterness, an unforgiving spirit or laziness.
Remember, "All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads
only to poverty". Proverbs 10:14
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Think
about when you were "courting".
You worked hard "to get that
ring on your finger".
You gave much thought to what you
wore in an effort to look appealing
for your boyfriend/girlfriend (now
spouse).
You were willing to quickly forgive
each other and move on. Maybe you gave each
other love notes, were willing to
make financial sacrifices, planned
exquisite and very romantic evenings
together.
Maybe you went as far as writing poetry or love songs for
each other. You were willing to sew
positive seeds in your relationship.
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Where has all that gone?
Time has passed and you
have been taking each other for
granted.
When was the last time you took your
spouse on a date or gave them a love
note? Was it a month ago, a
year ago or was it before you got
married?
Always remember that any marriage, whether Christian or not
will FAIL, if left unattended.
Over the years we have seen many failed marriages that could have survived
if couples were willing to to invest the "time, energy and
resources needed to have great marriages. If they were
willing to put into practice what they believed.
Starting today, learn how to keep the fire
burning in your marriage. It will take hard work
and determination, but in the end, it will be
worth it.
If you can relate to the above or
your marriage is
suffering from one of these problems you have come to the
right place for help:
- Unresponsive
Husband
- Sleeping Apart
- Reduced Sex Drive
- No Affection
- Silent Treatments
- Lack of Appreciation
- An
Unspiritual marriage
- Constant Bickering
- Unresolved Conflicts
- No Fun Time
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- Emotional Infidelity
- Disrespectful Wife
- Non-communicative Husband
- Unhappy Spouse
- Cheating Spouse
- Broken Trust
- Financial Crisis
- A nagging wife
- An unloving husband
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We are
Mark and Lesia Gregory, Authors of "The Marriage Thermometer
Principles", Certified Dynamic Marriage
Facilitators, Marriage Counselors and Wedding Planners with over 10 years experience.
We have
never had an argument
lasting more than 15 Minutes and have never gone to bed upset
with each other. Most people find this very difficult to believe
but it is more than possible and very true.
After completing our program you will learn how
to make this practice an integral part of your marriage.
For us,
Divorce has
never been an option as that is usually the
easy way out and the opposite of what God
designed marriage to be.
We will reveal to you a step-by-step
method on
how to turn your unhappy and cold marriage into one that
is on fire.
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Devoted Christians
and members of the International Churches of
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Learn How to use God's Standard to
Rekindle Love and Intimacy, Revive a Dead
Marriage or turn an Okay Marriage into a Great
Marriage
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six Part E-course:
"Is Your Marriage Steaming Hot
or Lukewarm?"
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Start Fixing Your Marriage Today
Remember, No Situation Is Too Far Gone - How The
Principles Evolved
We want to tell you about a
couple we counseled. The wife got pregnant when she
was 17 and the husband was nineteen. Before the
child was born they got married. Nine years later
their marriage was a mess. They did not have a solid
foundation and were ready to call it quits.
One evening they came to us
after they felt they had reached their limits. The
wife complained that her husband was cold towards
her, non-communicative, unresponsive and very stern.
He treated her like his child. He complained that
she was selfish and sometimes disrespectful.
Needless to say, all this placed a great strain on
their love live.
The wife complained that
when she wanted to have sex he didn’t; however, most
of the time neither of them wanted to. They found
themselves sleeping in separate rooms and if they
were in the same bed they ensured they were on
opposite sides. No contact; No love; No fire; No
passion. What principles did we use to help them?
The solution lies in the Marriage Thermometer
Principles.
Using the “Marriage Thermometer
Principles”
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The principles that we used to help them are what we
NOW
call “The Marriage Thermometer Principles”.
The
Marriage
Thermometer
Principles
are
based
on
The
Five
Temperatures
of
marriage,
ranging
from
Steaming
Hot
which
is
considered
the
"Honeymoon
Stage"
to the
Freezing
Stage
which
we
call
the
"Dead
Zone".
The
Marriage Thermometer Software
we created will help you figure out
the temperature of your marriage
and the other resources give the solution, most of which are
extremely practical.
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We are happy to say that
this couple is still together and very much in love. They now
have three beautiful children and are one of the happiest
couples you could find.
They stopped their constant
bickering, are setting a great example for their children and
they try to take at least one vacation overseas per year. They
use this time to rejuvenate; especially in the area of their
love life.
Can These Principles Work For You?
These principles are
innovative and proven to work in just about every situation.
It doesn’t matter where you are in your
marriage it will work for you. And that’s the
plain and simple truth. We will show you how to unlock the joy,
fulfillment, happiness and love in your marriage. If you do not
know the temperature of your marriage you can find that out
today and get started on ensuring that it is “Steaming Hot”.
5 Temperatures
of Marriage - Which Temperature are
You
Experiencing?
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One phrase for a Cold Marriage could be "Self
Inflicting Torture".
You are hurting and unhappy
but continue down the same path
for years. Unresolved conflicts,
sleeping apart, disrespect, or
maybe infidelity is driving a
wedge between you and your
spouse.
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Maybe your marriage isn't Cold and it is
definitely
not Steaming Hot.
Instead, it is Lukewarm. You and your spouse genuinely love each
other but are constantly arguing and one of you has discovered the "Vex
Room". You are simply going through the routines of marriage.
Maybe you
are separated and want to
reconcile with your spouse. You
really do not want a divorce.
If you can also relate to the above
in anyway, you definitely need to get
your personal copy of The Marriage
Thermometer Principles Handbook and
Software.
7 Effective Steps that can
Transform Your Marriage Forever
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 Step
1
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To get started you use our
interactive, Marriage
Thermometer Software Version 2.
It will diagnose the temperature
of your marriage then give you a
prescription on how to proceed
with fixing your marriage.
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This first step is very important
because you will need to know exactly
which stage you are at before you can
know how to get to the Steaming Hot
Stage.
You will also learn about the five
temperatures of marriage, how people
get to each stage, what is required of
you to get to and
remain at the Steaming Hot Stage
Step
2 - The
next step is working on the Fundaments of your
marriage . This includes our radical conflict
resolution technique called "The 15 Minute Rule",
A comparison of the roles of husband and wife
and how the changing times have negatively affected
husband and wife relationship, in-law issues, building
a spiritual family and more.
Step
3 -
This step is mainly for persons experiencing
Cold or Freezing marriages.
You will learn what
to do
if your spouse wants a separation or
divorce or how to cope in an abusive marriage.
Step
4 -
You will be armed with
strategic solutions on how to affair proof your
marriage,
deal with infidelity, emotional affair,
setting
boundaries and
the art of
forgiveness
Step
5 -
You will also learn how to manage
your finances
so that you can
focus on what is most important. Most couples are so
stressed out with their finances that they are unable
to invest in their marriages.
Step
6
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Then you will be given some proven and practical
principles on how to improve your sex life.
When you are finished there will be no turning back.
Husbands will learn how to score big points with
their wives. Wives will learn how to keep their
husbands at home. He may even take you shopping in
the end or treat you to a day at the spa.
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Step 7
You will learn how to transform your
Dating Life and put romance and intimacy back in your marriage.
Ultimately, you will be taught how to have a
"Steaming Hot" Christian marriage.
Being a Christian
does not mean your marriage has to be stale and lack
luster.
The Marriage Thermometer Handbook will
help you see that more clearly.
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Do you think you are up for the challenge? Are you willing
to do anything to save your marriage?
All that is required of you to get started is dedication to the principles (a few minutes
per day) and a desire to save your marriage.
Did you know
that……….
In the United
States, every 45 seconds a family is destroyed
by divorce
Source:
National Center for Health Statistics
22% of adults
worldwide claimed to have had an extra marital
affair and While the average divorce rate is
50%, it is 40% for first marriages, 60% for
second marriages and 73% for third marriages.
Couples separate on the average 7 years after
marriage, and divorce after 8.
Source: Life Innovations,
Inc.
Do Not Become Another Marriage Statistic
You can learn how to save a dead marriage and get it Steaming Hot
Starting Today!
Remember, God wants marriage forever, he
established marriage to last...
"Therefore, what God has joined together, let man not separate". Matthew 19:6
Here are Just a Few of the Life Changing Principles You
Will Learn from the Marriage Thermometer Handbook
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How
to resolve conflicts in 15 minutes or less (Page
71)
How
to bring back the love and tenderness in your marriage
(Page 184)
Learn
what to do (step by step guide) if your spouse wants a separation or divorce
(Page 44)
Know
the temperature of your marriage
(Page 21 & the
Marriage Thermometer Software)
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ISBN: 978-976-610-838-0 |
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Learn
why people cheat and how to cheat proof your marriage(Page
167)
How
to get along with your in-laws (Page 82)
Know
what are the biggest complaints in marriage
(Page 63)
How
to help your children cope with your spouse's affair if they found out.
(Page 173)
How
to survive your spouse's infidelity (step by step guide). How to forgive him/her
and move on. (Page 170)
How
to let go of the past (Page 88)
How
to cope with an abusive spouse (step by step guide - Page
151)
Ways
to make your husband feel respected (Page 55)
Ways
to make your wife feel loved (Page 54)
Never
again go to bed upset at each other
(Page 68)
Know
which “button” to push to cause your spouse to relax and calm down in a
heated discussion or argument (Page 78)
Live
life as if you were always on your honeymoon
(Page 197)
How
to handle financial concerns (Page 142 )
Sex
- How to tell your spouse exactly what you want
(Page 192)
How
to improve your sex life (Page 189)
How
to create a balance - work, home, your spouse and your children
(Page 180)
Manage Your Finances (Page 135 )
How
to avoid emotional affair
(Page 148)
How
to set boundaries in your marriage - substance abuse, sexual addiction etc.
(Page 147)
How
to Cure Unhappiness in Your Marriage
(Page 76)
Build
moral, ethical and spiritual family values
(Page 111)
Learn
how to properly communicate with / relate to your spouse
(Page 63)
Learn
how to build emotional Intimacy in your marriage
(Pages
184)
Saving
and budgeting (Page 136 )
PLUS,
lots, lots more
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What Others Have Said…..
“A Whole Lot of Help For Your Buck!”
I am totally
impressed with the Marriage Thermometer.
I still cannot get over the fact that
they include so much in the package.
They also cover most of the problems
people have in their marriage, so
practical and simple. My wife is loving
the new direction our marriage has
taken. I will definitely be recommending
it to a few of my friends who are having
marriage problems.
Chrisfinigan
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"Practical Advice"
This book gives practical
advice that is applicable to any
stage of marriage. We are sure that
if the tips are followed with a
cooperative spirit it will work for
you!!
Definitely a book to be read together. It helped us
to communicate our ideas and facilitated open and
honest discussion about topics that are very
important to a successful marriage.
It brought my husband and I
closer together and we are newly
weds! We are sure it will help
others. The
Wilsons - Amazon Customer
“Keep It Simple; Have a
Plan and Work the Plan”
The Gregory's creative and
practical approach to helping
couples has made them one of the
most sought after resource for
issues on marriage in our church.
One of their principles that we
apply to our marriage is Keeping it
simple; always having a plan and
taking the required steps to achieve
our ultimate goal. Mark and Lesia
don't just talk the talk; they lead
us by incredible example.
Melissa Bennett - KCOC
“15 Minute Rule”
The thing that
we have learnt from you that has impacted us on our marriage
the most is your "15 minute rule", where you never go more
than 15 minutes without resolving a conflict or argument.
As we have practiced this, we've
realized how much energy and joy is sapped from us by allowing
a conflict/argument to continue for too long (even a day). It
has been so much easier for us to maintain our unity and
rationale by being committed to working through our conflicts
quickly.
Thanks Mark and Lesia!
Richard and Chloe Russell - KCOC
Imagine For a Moment It Is 2
Months From Now
This may sound like a fairy tale
marriage but we personally know of many couples
including ourselves who live this way. This is HOW marriages were meant to be.
Constantly arguing, sleeping in
separate rooms, infidelity, no passion & lack of
intimacy is
NOT the norm.
You have been fed a
LIE by society and it is time you experience the joy and
fulfillment of marriage the way God intended it to be.
Remember,
marriage is
a blessing
from God and
you can
Reignite the
Fire,
Passion and
Intimacy,
regardless
of how long
you've been
married
Are You Ready to get Your
Marriage Steaming Hot?
The
Marriage Thermometer Handbook and
Software are one of a kind. The concepts are fresh,
innovative and practical.
Get Your Copy of this Life Changing
Handbook and Software Today and Keep God in the Center of Your Marriage;
You'll see your marriage transform before your very eyes.
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The marriage Thermometer Principles: A handbook on
marriage, love, intimacy and friendship
by Mark & Lesia Gregory
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Paperback: 258 pages
Publisher:Multistreams
Publishing (June 5, 2009)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 9766108382
ISBN-13: 978-9766108380
Handbook Dimensions: 9
x 6 x 0.6 inches
Shipping Weight:
1 pound
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This
includes over 200 pages of detailed
step by step practical information
on how to have a Steaming Hot
marriage.
Also, learn how the "Vex Room" can destroy your marriage, how
the "15 Minute Rule" can be a blessing to your marriage, your
wife will never again use the "No Sex Ammunition" on you and
you won't need to "tie your husband to a chair", for him to listen to
you and how to keep God in the center of your marriage.
 When
you receive this book, you will start by using the online software
to determine the temperature of your marriage. If you do not
know the temperature, you will not be able to ascertain the
areas in your marriage
that need the most work. Therefore, we call this the
first piece
of the puzzle in getting your marriage Steaming Hot.
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Invest in Your Marriage Today
and Reap the Rewards for Years to Come.
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 The Key to Unlocking the Joy and
Fulfillment of an Intimate & Steaming Hot Marriage is
NOW In Your Hands?
We could go on and on
but you need to prove it to yourself that you can experience
your own personal miracle in your marriage.
You and us know that if you've read this far, you're
seriously interested in improving your marriage and
getting it steaming hot. Everything is left up to you now.
Please, make the decision to improve your marriage starting
TODAY!
We wish
for you and your spouse God's richest blessings and
look forward to working with you in the near future.
Sincerely,
Mark and Lesia Gregory
Marriage Counselors and Wedding
Planners
P.S.
Despite your challenges there is hope. Don't let
your marriage be ripped apart by the problems you now face. Get
the tools you need today to keep your family intact. Believe us,
it will be worth every penny you spend on this amazing Handbook
and Software. Get started today!
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